Showing posts with label co-workers. Show all posts
Showing posts with label co-workers. Show all posts

Tuesday, April 28, 2009

Should employees be friends?

Too many leaders confuse their staff for friends. Maybe it’s the long hours in close quarters, but an employee shouldn’t be a friend, nor should they see the boss as a pal. Confusing this dynamic causes all sorts of problems – questions about loyalty and favoritism – and the need to be treated as a friend. Friends on the job forever need to be cut a break, to take time off, to come in late, a new assignment, and a myriad of other considerations that it is not often possible to grant. By contrast, friends at home never seem to ask for such consideration, which, I suppose, is why I tend to keep them at home.

This isn't to say you shouldn't be friendly toward employees - everyone deserves fairness, dignity, and respect.

How do you deal with your work relationships?